With luck, robotic exploration of the solar system will continue. But even there, the risk is of diminishing returns. Every planet has now been visited, and every planet with a solid surface bar Mercury has been landed on. Asteroids, moons and comets have all been added to the stamp album. Unless life turns up on Mars, or somewhere even more unexpected, public interest in the whole thing is likely to wane. And it is the public that pays for it all.” —The end of the Space Age
June 2011
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With luck, robotic exploration of the solar system will continue. But even there, the risk is of diminishing returns. Every planet has now been visited, and every planet with a solid surface bar Mercury has been landed on. Asteroids, moons and comets have all been added to the stamp album. Unless life turns up on Mars, or somewhere even more unexpected, public interest in the whole thing is likely to wane. And it is the public that pays for it all.” —The end of the Space Age
I’m one of those people that are paralyzed by too many choices. What should I do on my day off? Where should I open a Roth IRA? Which project should I work on first? I’ll over-analyze every possible choice to the point that I end up doing…nothing.
Because of this, I’ve learned to think about my…
Herbert and Zelmyra Fisher have an extraordinary story to tell. They’ve been married for 86 years. Together, they endured the Great Depression, World War II, the Korean War, Cuban Missile Crisis and Vietnam, they have seen the impact of the Civil Rights Movement, watched man land on the moon, the dropping of the atomic bomb, lived through the terms of 15 presidents and still live to tell about it. But there are many centenarians for whom the same holds true so what makes Herbert and Zelmyra so extraordinary? Throughout everything, they have remained married.
Married on May 13, 1924, 105-year old Herbert, and 103-year-old Zelmyra do not pretend to know any secrets to a lasting marriage. They have been married longer than any known living couple, had five children and have watched countless grandchildren and great-grandchildren come into the world. They are a sweet, aging pair that will tell you truthfully that they were married because Zelmyra “did not give [Herbert] any trouble” and Herbert “was not much to look at… [but] he was quiet and kind.” After 86 years, they remain in the home where they raised their five children, sleep in different bedrooms and love each other all the same. They hold the world record for length of marriage for two living persons. Is your union built to last the test of time?
Marriage Advice:
Question: You got married very young – how did u both manage to grow as individuals yet not grow apart as a couple?
Answer: Everyone who plants a seed & harvests the crop celebrates together. We are individuals, but accomplish more together.
Question: At the end of bad relationship day, what is the most important thing to remind yourselves?
Answer: Remember marriage is not a contest – never keep a score. God has put the two of you together on the same team to win.
I’m so prideful and so bipolar that most time I feel like expressing myself is a waste of time because even if I was to pour my heart out passionately about some issue or whatever, my whole thought process be done did an 180 in two hours and everything I said previously either doesn’t matter anymore or only is halfway relevant anymore. I just don’t want people to think I’m crazy. On top of that, I’m constantly concerned with being misunderstood. Like even if I got up the courage to say what’s on my mind, that doesn’t mean those around me would understand or they might just take it the wrong way, get offended, you know things like that. There’s a number of things that could be wrong with me but soon as someone assume the wrong thing I go deeper into my box. It’s frustrating and a know my thought process is self-defeating most of the time but I could just be quiet and save all the misconstruing. Just keep it to myself seems like the most logical answer. I guess… but then no! Because that takes me right back to my first problem of staying bottled up. I’m really really just so fucked mentally.

Submitted by Tiary: Official Creator, Guru, Advice Columnist, and Photographer
- Don’t rush into relationships.
Rushed relationships never end well. Take your time, know who you are, who the person is, and make sure a relationship is what you both want to do.
